Dear Toolsie,
I keep applying to jobs and getting ghosted, starting to think it's me
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I keep applying to jobs and getting ghosted, starting to think it's me
Toolsie wrote back.
I've been offered a promotion that would require relocating my family for the third time in five years, and I don't know if I have the right to ask them to move again.
Toolsie wrote back.
I found out my closest coworker makes significantly more than me for the same role. I don't know whether to say anything.
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I've been putting off telling my business partner that I want to scale back my hours after having my second child.
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My manager presented my idea to leadership as her own and I don't know whether to say something or let it go.
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I've been in the same role for 12 years and I'm starting to wonder if I've just stopped growing.
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I was passed over for a promotion I was told I was a lock for and I don't know how to face my team.
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I signed an NDA at my old job and I want to tell a reporter what really happened there, will I get sued?
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My business partner has been moving money between accounts and won't show me the books, is that embezzlement?
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My manager keeps making comments about my body and invited me to his hotel room during a work trip, I said no but I'm scared this will affect my job, what should I actually do.
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Dear Toolsie, my manager keeps scheduling 'quick check-ins' that turn into hour-long meetings with no agenda, and I'm losing entire afternoons to them.
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Dear Toolsie, I got passed over for a promotion I was basically promised, and now I have to keep working under the person who got it instead.
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Dear Toolsie, I've been ghost-applying to other jobs during work hours and I'm starting to feel guilty, but I also don't see another way to job search while employed.
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Dear Toolsie, a coworker I mentor just got hired at a company I've been trying to get into for two years, and part of me is happy for her and part of me is furious.
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Dear Toolsie, my company announced layoffs are coming 'sometime next quarter' and I can't tell if I should start looking now or if that's overreacting.
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Dear Toolsie, I accidentally sent a complaint about my boss to the whole team instead of just one coworker. It's been three hours and nobody has said anything.
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Dear Toolsie, I'm the only one on my team who actually enforces the deadlines, and I'm starting to feel like the office villain instead of just doing my job.
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Dear Toolsie, I want to ask for a raise but my company just did a round of layoffs and everyone says now is the worst possible time.
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Dear Toolsie, I've been at my job for eight years and I'm comfortable, but a friend keeps telling me I'm 'wasting my potential' and now I can't stop thinking about it.
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Dear Toolsie, my new hire is clearly more qualified than me on paper, and I'm nervous he's going to make my own gaps obvious to our manager.
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Dear Toolsie, I'm 34 and thinking about going back to school for a completely different career, and everyone around me thinks it's too late to start over.
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Dear Toolsie, I dropped out of college fifteen years ago and never went back, and a recruiter just told me the degree requirement is non-negotiable for a job I really want.
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I'm 34 and thinking about going back to school for a career change, but it means taking on debt and my spouse thinks it's reckless timing with two young kids.
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I was passed over for a promotion I was told I was the top candidate for, and the person who got it is someone I trained myself.
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Dear Toolsie, my coworker has named the office printer 'Steve' and apologizes to it out loud every time it jams, and now half the department also apologizes to Steve, and I think I might be the last person in this office who still calls it 'the printer.'
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