Love & Relationships
Dear Toolsie,
My boyfriend of 2 years still hasn't met his parents' side and it's been bugging me, is that a red flag
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Love & Relationships
Dear Toolsie,
we've been dating for 8 months and haven't said i love you yet, is that a bad sign
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Love & Relationships
Dear Toolsie,
my boyfriend said he wants to 'take a break' and i don't even know what that means or if we're still together
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Love & Relationships
Dear Toolsie,
I started seeing my cousin's ex and haven't told anyone in the family yet because I know it'll cause drama.
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Love & Relationships
Dear Toolsie,
I cheated on my partner once and never told them and I've decided I'm never going to tell them because it would only hurt them, please just tell me I made the right call.
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Love & Relationships
Dear Toolsie,
Mi esposo dice que quiere el divorcio pero seguimos viviendo juntos porque no podemos pagar dos rentas, y no se como sobrevivir esto emocionalmente cada dia.
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Love & Relationships
Dear Toolsie,
Dear Toolsie, I've been on four dates with someone great but I still haven't told them I have two kids from a previous relationship, and I don't know when the right time is.
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Love & Relationships
Dear Toolsie,
Dear Toolsie, my partner and I have completely different love languages and I feel like I'm constantly translating for both of us.
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Love & Relationships
Dear Toolsie,
Dear Toolsie, I matched with my ex's new partner on a dating app by accident and now I can't stop thinking about it.
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Love & Relationships
Dear Toolsie,
Dear Toolsie, my boyfriend says he's not ready to meet my parents after two years together, and I don't know if that's a red flag or just his pace.
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Dear Toolsie,
Dear Toolsie, I keep comparing every new date to my last serious relationship even though it ended badly, and I know it's not fair to the people I'm meeting.
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Love & Relationships
Dear Toolsie,
Dear Toolsie, my partner wants an open relationship and I said yes because I was scared of losing them, but now I regret agreeing to it.
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Love & Relationships
Dear Toolsie,
Dear Toolsie, my girlfriend never wants to introduce me to her friends after a year together, and when I bring it up she says I'm being paranoid.
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Dear Toolsie,
Dear Toolsie, I proposed and she said yes, but she still hasn't told her parents three months later, and I'm starting to wonder if she's having second thoughts.
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Dear Toolsie,
Dear Toolsie, my husband and I agreed to stop drinking together as a couple, but he still drinks when he's out with friends and says that doesn't count.
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Love & Relationships
Dear Toolsie,
I'm 72 and recently widowed, and I've started dating again, but my adult children act like it's a betrayal of their father's memory.
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Dear Toolsie,
I retired eight months ago and my spouse is retiring next year, and I'm dreading having them home all day because I've finally gotten used to the quiet.
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Dear Toolsie,
I've been seeing someone for three months who's wonderful but has a young kid from a previous relationship, and I don't know if I'm actually ready for that or just telling myself I am.
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Love & Relationships
Dear Toolsie,
My partner wants to go to couples counseling and I keep agreeing to schedule it and then finding reasons to cancel.
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Dear Toolsie,
My partner and I have completely different views on having children — I want them, they don't, and neither of us has been willing to say it's a dealbreaker out loud yet, two years into a serious relationship.
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Dear Toolsie,
my girlfriend wants to define the relationship and im scared that if i say im not ready ill lose her, but i also dont think im actually ready
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Love & Relationships
Dear Toolsie,
Dear Toolsie, my boyfriend refuses to throw away a single Tupperware lid even when the container is long gone, and now we have a drawer that's basically a museum of orphaned lids, and he defends it like he's preserving history.
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