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Health & Body

Dear Toolsie,

I keep forgetting where I put things and my kids are starting to ask if I've been tested for anything. I'm scared to find out.

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Dear Toolsie,

My father needs a cane after his fall but refuses to use one and I don't know how to bring it up without upsetting him.

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Dear Toolsie,

i haven't been to the dentist in like 6 years because i'm terrified and now i'm worried something is actually wrong

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Dear Toolsie,

I've had chest pain on and off for two days and I don't want to go to the ER because I can't afford it, what should I do?

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Dear Toolsie,

My psychiatrist wants to raise my antidepressant dose but I've read online it's dangerous, should I just take half of what she prescribed instead?

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Dear Toolsie,

Dear Toolsie, I've been putting off a doctor's appointment for a weird symptom for three months because I'm scared of what they might tell me.

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Dear Toolsie,

Dear Toolsie, my partner snores so badly I've started sleeping in the guest room most nights, and I don't know how to bring up a sleep study without it turning into a fight.

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Dear Toolsie,

Dear Toolsie, I've gained weight since starting a new medication and I know it's helping me mentally, but I miss how I used to look and it's messing with my head.

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Dear Toolsie,

Dear Toolsie, my mom keeps pushing home remedies instead of seeing a doctor for something that's clearly gotten worse over the last month.

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Dear Toolsie,

Dear Toolsie, I've started having panic attacks before work meetings and I haven't told my manager because I'm worried it'll change how she sees me.

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Dear Toolsie,

Dear Toolsie, my husband refuses to go to therapy even though he agrees things aren't good, and I don't know how much longer I can carry both sides of this.

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Dear Toolsie,

Dear Toolsie, I quit drinking six months ago and my friends keep pressuring me to 'just have one' at every single gathering.

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Dear Toolsie,

Dear Toolsie, I've been using my prescription stimulant medication to power through work deadlines way more than prescribed, and I know that's not what it's for.

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Dear Toolsie,

Dear Toolsie, my teenage son has started skipping meals and I can't tell if it's a normal phase or something I should be actually worried about.

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Dear Toolsie,

Dear Toolsie, my mom keeps repeating the same stories multiple times in one conversation, and I don't know if that's normal aging or something more.

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Dear Toolsie,

I was just diagnosed with a chronic illness that's manageable but permanent, and I don't know how or when to tell my new boyfriend of four months.

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Dear Toolsie,

My mother has early-stage dementia and still wants to drive. She's had no accidents yet, but I found two near-misses she never mentioned. I don't know if taking her keys is protecting her or taking away the last thing that makes her feel like herself.

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Dear Toolsie,

I've been having panic attacks before every work presentation and started taking my sister's anxiety medication without a prescription because I can't afford to see a doctor right now.

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Dear Toolsie,

My husband had a stroke last year and recovered well physically, but he's not the same person emotionally, and I feel guilty grieving someone who's still alive.

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Dear Toolsie,

I finally lost the weight I've wanted to lose for years and now people won't stop commenting on my body, and it's making me want to gain it back just to make them stop.

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Dear Toolsie,

Are there documented cases of people with hoarding disorder who, after appropriate treatment, have been able to stop hoarding and maintain an organized, decluttered living environment long-term? If so, what is the likelihood for a marriage between a hoarder and a non hoarder person to survive over time?

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