Friends
Dear Toolsie,
idk if i shld tell my bff her bf is cheating??? like we're not even that close anymore but i saw him w someone else and idk what to do
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Friends
Dear Toolsie,
My roommate never does dishes and I'm sick of being the only one who cleans. How do I bring it up without starting a fight?
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Friends
Dear Toolsie,
i lent my friend my nice camera like 4 months ago and she still hasn't given it back and it's getting awkward
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Friends
Dear Toolsie,
My best friend moved across the country two years ago and we barely talk anymore. I don't know if the friendship is just over.
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Friends
Dear Toolsie,
My best friend just announced she's pregnant and I'm happy for her but I'm also going through infertility treatment and it's breaking my heart.
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Friends
Dear Toolsie,
my friend asked me to be her maid of honor and i said yes before even thinking and now i'm panicking because i really don't want to do it
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Friends
Dear Toolsie,
My friend asked me to help her get more of her pain pills from a second doctor without telling the first one, should I help her?
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Friends
Dear Toolsie,
I ghosted my best friend of 15 years because she said something judgmental about my divorce and I know I'm being petty but I don't care, tell me I'm justified.
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Friends
Dear Toolsie,
Dear Toolsie, my closest friend only ever reaches out when she needs something, and I've started noticing how one-sided it's always been.
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Friends
Dear Toolsie,
Dear Toolsie, I lent a friend a significant amount of money two years ago and she's never brought it up again, and now I don't know how to either.
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Friends
Dear Toolsie,
Dear Toolsie, my friend group made plans for a trip and didn't include me this time, and I found out through a group photo posted online.
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Friends
Dear Toolsie,
Dear Toolsie, my best friend since childhood voted for someone I find genuinely disturbing, and I don't know if our friendship can survive a conversation about it.
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Friends
Dear Toolsie,
Dear Toolsie, I've outgrown a friend group that used to feel like everything to me, but ending things feels cruel since we've been close for over a decade.
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Friends
Dear Toolsie,
Dear Toolsie, my friend confided something serious to me and swore me to secrecy, but I think her family needs to know, and I don't know if breaking the promise is the right call.
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Friends
Dear Toolsie,
Dear Toolsie, I introduced two friends who are now dating and spending all their time together, and it feels like I lost two friends instead of gaining a couple.
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Friends
Dear Toolsie,
Dear Toolsie, my friend is going through a divorce and keeps venting to me at length, and I've started dreading her calls even though I feel guilty about it.
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Friends
Dear Toolsie,
Dear Toolsie, a friend I haven't spoken to in years messaged me out of nowhere asking to catch up, and I have a bad feeling it's actually a sales pitch.
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Friends
Dear Toolsie,
my best friend and i are applying to the same really competitive program and only one of us will probably get in, how do i not let it wreck our friendship
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Friends
Dear Toolsie,
One of my closest friends had a baby and has basically disappeared from our friendship, and I don't know how to bring it up without sounding like I don't understand what having a baby is like.
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Friends
Dear Toolsie,
A friend of fifteen years recently came into a lot of money and started treating group hangouts differently — nicer restaurants, expensive suggestions — and I can't tell if I'm actually being priced out of the friendship or just resentful of their good fortune.
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Friends
Dear Toolsie,
My friend group has an unspoken rule about not talking politics, but one friend keeps bringing it up anyway and it's made our last three get-togethers tense.
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Friends
Dear Toolsie,
Dear Toolsie, my best friend text-argues with her Roomba by name when it gets stuck under the couch, full sentences, like 'Gerald, we've talked about this,' and I don't know whether to be concerned or ask if Gerald takes constructive feedback.
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Friends
Dear Toolsie,
My roommate never does his dishes no matter how many times I ask him. Should I just confront him directly about it or leave a passive aggressive note?
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